“Cheating Is A Sign Of Success, Stamina, And An Ego Boost for Nigerian Men” – Joro Olumofin
Relationship specialist Joro Olumofin has provided explanations as to why cheating is seen by Nigerian men as a sign of success and as a way to increase their self-esteem.
Olumofin says that having multiple girlfriends during high school portrays a boy as a “bad guy.” In college, this tendency continues, with a man who has maybe four girlfriends is being commended for being the “correct guy.”
According to the relationship expert, some universities even recognize these individuals by awarding medals as the “ladies man of the year.”
He reveals that the likelihood exists that friends refer to you as a “stallion” if you have multiple side relationships, even after you get married.
He links this way of thinking to deeply rooted thought patterns that are created during childhood and impact a man’s decision on commitment.
“Cheating is a sign of Success, Stamina, and an Ego Boost for Nigerian men. In Secondary School if a Boy has 3 girlfriends he’s a ” Bed Guy ” his friends will laud him In University if a guy has 4 girlfriends he’s a “correct Guy” – His friends will hail him -Some universities even give awards “Ladies man of the Year” to acknowledge him. As a married man if he has 3 Side cheks. His friends will call him “Idan, Stallion, Rambo” This behavior has been imprinted in his cognition throughout his childhood. When it’s time to commit to 1 woman it becomes difficult. Men who are loyal to 1 woman are referred to as Mumu in Nigeria.” He wrote.